by Honolulu Mother
Apparently of the kids who play organized sports, only 30% are still playing by the end of middle school, as written up in this Washington Post article:
Why 70 percent of kids quit sports by age 13
The article suggests a number of reasons, which largely come down to the way the system is designed to be up-or-out and narrow down to the most serious and competitive players, in combination with similar increases in time demands and competitiveness in other activities forcing kids to choose just one or two things to focus on.
Do you have thoughts on this phenomenon? Is there a place for a once-a-week fun league in high school? Have your high schoolers found other fun ways to keep active when they’re not in organized sports?
by North of Boston
Totebaggers, what strategies have been helpful — or not — in getting your kids to talk to you in a meaningful way?
When Teenagers Bristle at ‘How Was School?’
by Honolulu Mother
My daughter spends her evenings in a Hamiltrash chat via Instagram. I have heard (upon information and belief) that many other teens do the same.
Hamilton’s teenage superfans: ‘This is, like, crazy cool’
What, if anything, will it mean for this age group that their big teenage musical obsession involves a rap battle over whether to found a national bank instead of the usual boy band output? Will this come to be considered a generational marker?
by Denver Dad
In a recent thread, I talked about our issues finding a suitable “camp” or
other activity for the summer for 14-year-old DD. Some people commented
that they don’t understand why a teenager needs to go to camp.
So I’ll ask the question: what are your young teenagers doing for the
summer, or if you have older kids, what did they do when they were in the
13 to 15 range? I’m particularly interested in replies from families
where both parents work outside the home so the kids can’t get to/from
activities that are less than a full day.
Just saw this thread on Corporette and thought we could talk about teen pregnancy! (Controversy!) :) What would Totebaggers do if your teen got pregnant, or impregnated someone else?
Corporette teen pregnancy thread
by Grace aka costofcollege
‘Friends’ Has New BFFs: New York Teenagers
Young people have discovered old sitcoms.
… If you are somewhere between 13 and 20, however, and particularly if you live in New York, you may find yourself very much in the “Friends” zone. This is not because you landed on an episode, after coming home semi-wasted, on late-night television, where it is almost always on in syndication, but because you watch it methodically, on Netflix, in sequence, through its more than 230 shows.
Which “Friends” character are you?
… “We are really into categorizing each other as a Rachel or a Monica; it’s fun to play into that.”…
My teen has even categorized one of our dogs as more of a “Ross” and the other as a “Joey”.
What old (or new) TV shows are your kids (or you) binge-watching? What were some of your favorite TV shows from your younger years? Have they aged well? Have you bonded with your kids over old shows, movies, or music?
I know my kids’ private school start dates are earlier than many as both start the week of August 17 this year. The article below talks about school start times and how middle and high schoolers shouldn’t start before 8:30 am given their internal clocks stay up to11 pm and they need to get the requisite 9 hours of sleep. Our middle school begins at 8:00 am and high school begins at 8:20 am.
In our metro area we have at least 6 different school districts with different start dates, though not before August 24, and different start times. Those high schools with 9 am start times do not let out until 4 pm and kids riding the bus are often not home until 5 pm. The main complaints of parents I have heard about this later start time are (1) the kids have an hour or more at home after the parents have left for work before they have to leave for school, (2) after school sports practices then often go over into the dinner hour, and (3) it often means the kids are up doing homework after parents have gone to bed.
Some discussions I have had with other parents have raised the following points about 9 am starts – (1) start time really doesn’t matter because often club or some sports practices are moved to the mornings which still puts the kids on campus as early as 7 am, (2) after school activities are just shifted later, so a 4-6 pm practice moves to a 5-7 pm practice, which interferes more with the dinner hour, especially if you have younger kids whose school hours in the same district are 7:45 am to 2:45 pm, (3) kids with lots of homework (especially after an after-school practice) often aren’t in bed by 11 pm as you have just shifted it later in the day, and (4) even to take the bus for a 9 am start kids are to be “at the stop” by 8:15 am, so assuming they are getting up at 7:30 am, they would have to be in bed by 10:30 pm to get their 9 hours.
Totebaggers – What hours do your kids attend school? Do they start earlier than 8:30 am? Do you think it’s a problem? Do you like later start times, if your district has them.
You won’t believe how early school starts in some states
by Denver Dad
I thought this article would be of interest to Totebaggers as many of our kids are nearing this age.
What Happened to the Teen Summer Job?
At age 8, my father took the train alone over 100 miles, and transferred trains in New York City, to get home from summer camp.
At age 14, I flew cross country by myself, with transfers, in the days before cell phones.
When do you think kids should be allowed to travel alone?
When would you (or did you) allow your child to fly, or take a city bus, subway, or train without an adult accompanying them?
What limits have you set with your tween/teenage kids about traveling by themselves? What were you allowed to do?