Fill in the blanks:
Aside from a _____, a _____ will be the most expensive thing I will ever buy.
Aside from a _____, a _____ has been the most expensive thing I”ve ever bought.
I’m sure you’ve seen statements like this many times, with various things in the blanks. What accurately fills the blanks for you? How does that compare to other ways you’ve seen them filled?
by Honolulu Mother
The Washington Post found a recent study so interesting that they reported on it twice:
Yes, you can buy happiness – if you spend it to save time
One surprising way money can buy happiness, according to scientists
In the study, people were given $40 and told to spend it on some fun item, and then given $40 again the next week and told to spend it on something to save them time. They reported greater happiness from the purchase than the fun-item group. The study concluded that you can buy more happiness from spending on anything from take-out to a yard service or weekly cleaners than from spending the same amount on material things.
We may be in the Totebag minority in not having a cleaning service or yard service, and we also go pretty light on the dining out or takeout. My first reaction was to wonder if my household is missing a good thing here. My second reaction was to wonder if the study had really accounted for hedonic adaptation, i.e. the idea that if you normally take care of some task yourself but one time you have someone else do it for you, it feels *great*, but if you always outsource it, that just feels normal. For example, when I get back from a vacation I always have a few days of adjustment to the idea that no, really, we do have to provision and prepare all the meals and yes, we really do have to go back to work. Then I settle back in and the routine feels normal again.
So what does the Totebag think? Is outsourcing pesky tasks really a surer route to happiness than saving for a family vacation or other goals? Or is this study missing a distinction between outsourcing something as an occasional treat versus routinely?