Most of us would have no problem stepping across the baby blue/pink divide to pick up an item for our children, but for ourselves, as adults? Have you purchased or do you use items not designed for your gender? Why or why not?
My feet are size 10 in women’s, size 8 in men’s. I’ve bought men’s shoes twice: my leather Converse for high school basketball and a pair of oxfords. The BB shoes were ok, but the others never felt right on my feet. Maybe it was just the shoes, I don’t know, but that put me off buying men’s shoes. 20 or 30 years ago, I bought “men’s” bikes because the crossbar made them more stabile. I consider the tools I own to be gender neutral. Some were my grandfather’s. When I chose the others, color was not a consideration.
5 Items You Should Buy From the Men’s Section
So how about it? What do you own that might be considered not gender-appropriate? How did you make the choice to buy or use it? Do you feel any repercussions from either crossing that line or following it too closely?
“Locker room talk” and “boys will be boys” – in the wake of our current president’s words (and alleged sexual assaults), what solutions would Totebaggers suggest? Parents of boys, how would you feel if your son was one of the people scoring women?
2012 Harvard Men’s Soccer Team Produced Sexually Explicit ‘Scouting Report’ on Female Recruits
WATCH: Harvard women’s soccer’s response to ‘scouting reports’ featured in Lifetime video
McKinsey/Lean In’s report on women in the workplace just came out. What are Totebaggers’ thoughts?
Women in the Workplace 2016
As college looms closer and closer (and for those with toddlers, it’s sooner than you think), there are many factors to consider as our kids narrow down their choices.
One possible factor is sex assault, and the impact of gender ratios on that:
What a massive sexual assault survey found at 27 top U.S. universities
Unequal Gender Ratios at Colleges Are Driving Hookup Culture
Hookup culture isn’t the real problem facing singles today. It’s math.
Is this something you are, or will, consider, or encourage your kids to consider, as they make their college choices?
One takeaway for me is to be glad that DD liked Caltech and, at least at this point, has that on her lists of colleges she might want to attend.
WCE and I have discussed here some of the benefits to females of majoring in engineering, and this is another benefit, which we haven’t discussed previously.
Do your kids’ schools have dress codes?
The Sexism of School Dress Codes
If so, what are those codes? What do you find good and bad about them? Do the codes treat boys and girls (and others) equally? Are boys, girls, and others treated equally in enforcement of the codes? Is it difficult to find clothes that meet those codes?
What changes would you like to see in your kids’ dress codes and their implementation and enforcement?
It looks like we will be seeing a woman on our $10 bill soon. What woman do you think should be on that bill, or what woman would you like to see on that bill, and why?
One restriction is it cannot be a living person, so that rules out Beyonce and the Notorious RBG, among others.
And please, no suggestions of so-and-so because that means she’s dead.
When Family-Friendly Policies Backfire
Anyone have thoughts on when family-friendly policies backfire? Should we, as a society, support employees who choose to have a family?