A recent study looked into the effects of portion size and consumption of all vs part of those portions. Of particular interest to totebaggers, they specifically investigated consumption of entire cookies vs. partial cookies. The article suggests it may be preferable to eat smaller cookies than to eat half of cookies that are twice as large.
Do you eat, or serve your kids, half cookies? When you go out to eat do you bring home doggie bags? What strategies do you have to avoid overeating, whether eating out or at home?
I don’t think we’ve ever discussed jury duty here. I’ve had some recent experience, having been called, and sitting through a trial as an alternate juror. This was my second experience with jury duty; my first was over 20 years ago, when I was seated in the jury box, but was the defense’s first peremptory challenge.
What has been your experience with jury duty? Do you think it is something to avoid, or to you look forward to serving? Please share your jury duty stories.
My Mom’s jury duty story:
My mom had never been called to serve until she was retired. One night, a sheriff’s deputy drove over to her house to personally serve a jury summons, to which my mom responded along the lines of, great, I’ve always wanted to serve on a jury, and now that I’m retired I can serve as long as it takes, which totally flummoxed the deputy, who’d never had that sort of reaction.
So she shows up for the trial, makes it through the preliminary screening, gets seated in the jury box, and… was the first peremptory challenge. She was never called for jury duty again.
In a recent post on fashion, the following phrase in the referenced article caught my attention:
“the traditional American Dream of upward mobility through hard work.”
Is that consistent with your understanding of the American Dream?
It’s consistent with mine. What I’ve seen is a lot of generational steps, in which parents work hard to provide their kids with opportunities, that weren’t available to them, that allow their kids to move up the SES ladder, with succeeding generations continuing to get higher than their parents.
What’s your take on the American Dream? Have you and your family lived it? Do you think your kids and grandkids will live it?
An economic mystery of the last few decades has been why more women aren’t working. A new paper offers one answer: Most plan to, but are increasingly caught off guard by the time and effort it takes to raise children.
The share of women in the United States labor force has leveled off since the 1990s, after steadily climbing for half a century. Today, the share of women age 25 to 54 who work is about the same as it was in 1995, even though in the intervening decades, women have been earning more college degrees than men, entering jobs previously closed to them and delaying marriage and childbirth.
The new analysis suggests something else also began happening during the 1990s: Motherhood became more demanding. Parents now spend more time and money on child care. They feel more pressure to breast-feed, to do enriching activities with their children and to provide close supervision.
The people most surprised by the demands of motherhood were those the researchers least expected: women with college degrees, or those who had babies later, those who had working mothers and those who had assumed they would have careers. Even though highly educated mothers were less likely to quit working than less educated mothers, they were more likely to express anti-work beliefs, and to say that being a parent was harder than they expected.
Though the study did not analyze fathers’ role in depth, it found that their beliefs did not change significantly before and after having a baby. They were less likely than women to say that parenthood was harder than they expected.
Totebaggers tend to plan their lives more than most, so parenthood was likely planned by most of us. Were you caught off guard by the price of parenthood? Did the actual price of parenthood affect subsequent decisions whether or not to have additional kids?